The First Time Michael Realized He Was Different

Michael loved Sesame Street.  We always talked about time in Sesame Street time – i.e. I will be home in two Sesame Streets meaning two hours.  One day I was in the kitchen while Michael was watching Sesame Street and he began to cry.  I went into the living room and asked him what was wrong.  He said that Big Bird wanted him to get up and dance with him and he couldn’t dance.  I told him of course he could!  I picked him up and we danced all over the living room swinging and twirling and he was laughing. 

When we were done I put him down to continue watching his show and I went to my room and I cried.  I knew I could never allow my son to feel like he was incapable of anything and I will not allow him to feel sorry for himself, but it did and still does get to me.  I have wished often that I could change places with him.  I would do it in a second if it was possible.  But the fact is, it isn’t.  So what can I do for him?  Teach him to think outside the box.  Never let obstacles get in his way.  Remember your child will take your cues and respond accordingly.